Overfunctioner’s Revolution: Ghosted By A Girlfriend

Has it happened to you? One day you’re friends, the next day you’re not, and you can’t figure out what happened.

I love this vlog post. It was positive, thoughtful, reflective. I loved how clearly the vlogger told the story; how she named without shaming or blaming the friend or herself. Initially, the vlogger was baffled by her girlfriend’s disappearance but she had a strong enough center to say, “ok, this isn’t about me. AND whatever is going on with her is hers. I don’t have to get involved in it, fix it, chase it, demonize it.”